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Empty Nest, Full Heart: Rediscovering Yourself

The house is quieter now. The rooms that once echoed with footsteps, laughter, and the occasional slammed door now hold a different kind of silence. If you're navigating the empty nest phase, you know exactly what I mean.

As I wrote Paige's journey in 'Everything You've Ever Known,' I found myself exploring a question that many women face: Who are we when our primary role as day-to-day mom shifts? It's a question that can feel both daunting and exciting.

 

Five Ways to Embrace Your Empty Nest Journey:

  1. Acknowledge All Your Feelings It's okay to feel a mix of emotions – the pride in your children's independence, the sadness of daily goodbyes, and yes, even the excitement about having more time for yourself. Paige, my protagonist, struggles with this emotional cocktail too. Remember, feeling conflicted doesn't make you a bad mother; it makes you human.

  2. Rediscover Old Passions Remember that art class you loved in college? Or the writing you used to do late at night? Now's the time to dust off those dreams. In my book, Paige finds herself drawn back to her abandoned garden – a metaphor for the growth that happens when we nurture ourselves.

  3. Create New Rituals Replace the morning school run with a peaceful coffee and reading session. Transform the afternoon homework supervision into your creative writing time. Small changes can help redefine your daily rhythm.

  4. Connect Differently Both with your children and with yourself. Weekly video calls can be as meaningful as daily face-to-face conversations. Use this time to develop adult relationships with your children while strengthening other friendships too.

  5. Dream Bigger This isn't an ending – it's a beginning. What would you do if you weren't afraid? What story would you write if you had the time? (Hint: You have it now!)

Personal Reflection: As an author, I've poured many of these experiences into 'Everything You've Ever Known.' Paige's journey of self-discovery mirrors what many of us face: the challenge and triumph of reinvention. Her story reminds us that it's never too late to start a new chapter.

Your Turn: I'd love to hear your empty nest story. What has surprised you most about this phase of life? What dreams are you finally pursuing? Share in the comments below or join our Facebook group discussion.

Remember, an empty nest doesn't mean an empty life – often, it's quite the opposite. It's a time of rediscovery, reinvention, and remarkable growth.

Until next week,

Jess

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